Most men are completely crap with women… the only reason 95% of the population get laid is because most women are equally crap when it comes to dating and relationships.
If their self-esteem wasn’t low enough to settle for some of the losers out there the species would probably be dead by now. But I digress…
When meeting and dating women, almost all the communication actually takes place without words. Whether a woman realises it or not, she is looking for subtle cues in your behaviour to decide whether you’re actually who you pretend to be.
And if you ask a woman what she wants in a man, she’ll probably say something completely different to what she’s actually attracted to.
Ever been the single friend of a woman as she complains about how she just needs a “nice guy” while you sit there thinking… “umm… that’s me dumbass!” But of course off she runs to the other jackass again to have her heart broken.
What if you could learn to attract all the women you wanted without becoming a jackass?
Do you think meeting and attracting wonderful women may help you in your life? Would you bother to do it?
I did… and the change has been incredible.
To illustrate… I was in a bar with a girl I’d gone on a few dates with, sitting next to another girl I’d already slept with. Then a Brazilian girl comes up and starts talking to me explaining carefully how she was only in town for a few nights…
You’re missing out on life if you’ve never experienced a girl giving you “fuck me” eyes…
How did I work all this stuff out? The hard way… I took all the free information I could find and slowly put it into practice. It was slow and painful… although I did get results. But once I found David DeAngelo I was away laughing.
If you do one thing in 2009, it should be to read his ebook called “Double Your Dating“. You even get it for a 7 days trial before you have to pay anything. It will completely change the way you view women and interact with them.
And for the record, if you’re already in a relationship, you still need to read this book. Unless you’re happy being dumped someday for a guy that actually “gets it.” It’s not just about getting dates, it’s about being the man that magnetically attracts women.
Go sign up to his free newsletter (filled with great stuff) then get his ebook. I personally guarantee it’ll change your life.
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I have not a problem attracting the women (never have), howver it is keeping them and along the way, it is also entertataining them, and romancing them that I must become a professional at. Saying the right thing at the right time as well!!!!! MAking sure you really bring what is needed at the appropriate time.
Hey Thomas,
Sounds like you’re good at generating that initial attraction but have trouble sustaining it into a relationship.
This is one of the big reasons I love David DeAngelo’s stuff. There is a lot of material out there that focuses on how to “attract” women with pick up lines and parlour tricks. Sure, these can have their place, but I don’t think they’re as critical as building a personality that magnetically attracts women.
By attraction, I’m not talking about getting them excited when they meet you. I’m talking about building lasting attraction that continues into the relationship. It’s about making yourself an exciting person that they can’t help but want to be around.
Most men really have no idea what women are attracting to and never bother to learn. In fact, most things are completely counter-intuitive.
For example, you have to be careful with what you mean by “entertaining and romancing” them. Many guys think the way to a woman’s heart is buying her drinks, dinner, and flowers. However to a woman, this just looks like the guy is trying to buy her attention and is actually turned off. Sure, she may take the gifts, but that doesn’t mean she’ll ever fall in love with you.
Anyway, I could go on about this all day. If I was you, I’d at least sign up to DeAngelo’s newsletter as it’ll instantly open your eyes to many mistakes you’re making right now.
And if you want all the answers in one easy-to-read package, grab his ebook. It saves groping round in the dark for the gems he shares in his newsletter and just lays it all out clearly for you. I wish I’d bought it a lot earlier than I did as it would have saved A LOT of trial and error.
Good luck in your journey,
Tyler
Thanks Tyler, for the message, as I do appreciate it!!! And yeah and where can I pick up the ebook; I would be interested in reading it, I realy would, Thomas